Assuming you are using the foldable style softboxes, each of the boxes have an inner speed ring that can be removed and replaced. On the foldable boxes, the diameter of this inner ring is about 5.5" across. The below lists are of inner rings that are or I suspect are the same diameter. If you find a light kit that uses one of these mounts, you can just replace the inner ring.
We have fitted one of these to our boxes:
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/search?at ... 4291279785 These are purported to fit, but we have not verified
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/search?at ... 4194470318 I would not be surprised if these also work, but have not tested them
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/search?at ... 4289266287 If you are using non foldable boxes, then the speedring is fairly standard, and you should be able to find appropriate speedrings to mate the lights to the box.